Jared is my youngest. He was born in a terrible hurry. Textbook waters breaking, amazing plug in the bed (that I wished in hindsight I had photographed), ducking round the corner to leave the other two kids with a friend overnight and then a trip to the hospital. When we got to the maternity ward they put in a very large room and told me I was fully dilated. I told them I wanted an epidural because that is what I had had with the other two babies and the midwife said to me, "it's too late for that now love, you have to push". I was very shocked. Jared was also the most anxiety inducing baby. He was mobile from 9 months, walking climbing and touching all manner of dangerous objects. I needed to see a counsellor who ended up telling me, "everything is possible Anna but you need to ask yourself, is it probable?". He also seemed to have no pain threshold. He very rarely cried when he hurt himself. Just got up and kept going.